Starting a gratitude changed the course of my life. I don’t even think that’s an overstatement.
In my times of highest anxiety, thinking about gratitude helped me to think about and even feel my feelings. I suppose it may vary from person to person, but I am not able to function normally when I’m completely gripped by high-intensity emotions. Being emotionally stable is a necessary condition for living out my best intentions.
Writing down gratitudes helps me stay centered, even, and calm. There are many ways to do this. Here is how I approach it, which I took from a meditation class on Glo.
I write down four sentences as part of my morning routine. I happen to do this as part of my first order of business before I start my work day.
I recommend keeping your gratitude journal in the morning, but doing this at any time daily is great. Here are the four parts to my daily gratitude journaling:
Who is someone I am grateful for?
What is something I am grateful for?
What am I grateful for in the coming day?
What is a problem I am grateful for?
If I’m feeling angry, I might add, “Who do I forgive?”. When in despair, I might add, “What do I pray for?”.
There’s no 100% right way to do a gratitude journal, as long as you write out what you are grateful for. It’s hard at first, but definitely worth going deep on, every day.
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