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What I Learned In Ten Years of Marriage
May 3, 2026
What I Learned In Ten Years of Marriage
May 3, 2026

Marriage is made or broken in the dozens of moments each day when we turn toward each other—or away.

May 3, 2026
As Our Stakes Rise
April 26, 2026
As Our Stakes Rise
April 26, 2026

As our responsibilities grow, the real demand is not on our capacity—but on our spirit.

April 26, 2026
“What shall I make?”
April 19, 2026
“What shall I make?”
April 19, 2026

On making things beautiful in an age of AI.

April 19, 2026
To care for someone is an honor
April 5, 2026
To care for someone is an honor
April 5, 2026

On armor, seva, and what it means to truly care.

April 5, 2026
The Boy Full of Joy
March 28, 2026
The Boy Full of Joy
March 28, 2026

World Down Syndrome Day had me thinking what a good life is, and who deserves one.

March 28, 2026
With great responsibility
March 21, 2026
With great responsibility
March 21, 2026

Comes great power.

March 21, 2026
It’s a trap!
March 14, 2026
It’s a trap!
March 14, 2026

Growing in virtue creates the conditions for narcissism.

March 14, 2026
The Six Streams That Shape Human Life
March 8, 2026
The Six Streams That Shape Human Life
March 8, 2026

The streams that shape human life are surprisingly easy to corrupt—and surprisingly hard to guard.

March 8, 2026
When growth becomes an excuse
March 1, 2026
When growth becomes an excuse
March 1, 2026

Why past transformation can quietly become permission to stop growing.

March 1, 2026
Fasting from harsh words
February 21, 2026
Fasting from harsh words
February 21, 2026

Peace — in our souls and in our communities — doesn’t come from just being nicer.

It comes from starving the parts of us that crave conflict.

February 21, 2026
Be the Brakeman
February 15, 2026
Be the Brakeman
February 15, 2026

A short story about conflict resolution, and evolving as a coach.

February 15, 2026
Would they stop for us?
February 8, 2026
Would they stop for us?
February 8, 2026

We are feeble and reckless. But we have grown morally over the millennia. Would aliens passing through our solar system stop to engage our world?

February 8, 2026
Love, Radical and Unrelenting
February 1, 2026
Love, Radical and Unrelenting
February 1, 2026

I have not experienced love like this.

February 1, 2026
What Good Fathers Teach Without Saying
January 25, 2026
What Good Fathers Teach Without Saying
January 25, 2026

In the decade between my father’s funeral and Clarence’s, I relearned how to measure a life.

January 25, 2026
Joy comes at a terrible price
January 11, 2026
Joy comes at a terrible price
January 11, 2026

But all the work and suffering is worth it.

January 11, 2026
Life’s biggest decision: who you marry
December 28, 2025
Life’s biggest decision: who you marry
December 28, 2025

Holding down a job is only a small part of a successful marriage.

December 28, 2025
“What did I learn this year?”
December 21, 2025
“What did I learn this year?”
December 21, 2025

The question I’m contemplating heading into 2026.

December 21, 2025
The Thief of Joy
December 7, 2025
The Thief of Joy
December 7, 2025

In a world wired for comparison, I’m learning that joy isn’t found by avoiding it—but by choosing to start with presence.

December 7, 2025
Our simplest, most beautiful, dreams
November 28, 2025
Our simplest, most beautiful, dreams
November 28, 2025

To love and be loved, to be free, to grow, to create, to have peace — these are the simplest of dreams. Nothing fancy, nothing complex — but still beautiful.

November 28, 2025
Mercy, Unasked
November 23, 2025
Mercy, Unasked
November 23, 2025

There is a vibrancy and holiness that comes when we exchange in mercy.

November 23, 2025
Originality is the only game left
November 16, 2025
Originality is the only game left
November 16, 2025

As human artists, our last edge versus the computer is originality.

November 16, 2025
Psalm for Whispers
November 9, 2025
Psalm for Whispers
November 9, 2025

In a world full of screaming, creating quiet spaces is a small act of holiness.

November 9, 2025
A Mantra For Those Who Feel Squeezed
November 2, 2025
A Mantra For Those Who Feel Squeezed
November 2, 2025

The only way this totally squeezed life works is if we help each other.

November 2, 2025
And We’re back at Hogwarts
October 26, 2025
And We’re back at Hogwarts
October 26, 2025

We’ve started reading Harry Potter with our older two kids.

October 26, 2025
Why we all want to retire
October 19, 2025
Why we all want to retire
October 19, 2025

Work is dreadful, by design.

October 19, 2025
Those “bad people” may surprise us
October 11, 2025
Those “bad people” may surprise us
October 11, 2025

We don’t have to trust everyone — but we should stay open to being surprised.

October 11, 2025
Fill The Cup, Brother
October 4, 2025
Fill The Cup, Brother
October 4, 2025

In the end, the question isn’t whether the cup is half full or half empty — it’s whether we fill it.

October 4, 2025
Real or Not, We Believe In Magic
September 28, 2025
Real or Not, We Believe In Magic
September 28, 2025

Santa and Mickey aren’t real—but the magic they bring to life is.

September 28, 2025
Griffin, a Diagnosis, and the Gift of New Eyes
September 21, 2025
Griffin, a Diagnosis, and the Gift of New Eyes
September 21, 2025

What my son is teaching me about joy, justice, and seeing others more clearly

September 21, 2025
“Thoughts and Prayers”
September 14, 2025
“Thoughts and Prayers”
September 14, 2025

What we should expect of ourselves and others is responsibility. Arguing about phrases like “thoughts and prayers” misses the point.

September 14, 2025

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Character By Choice (Hardcover) Character By Choice (Hardcover)
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Character By Choice (Hardcover)
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"Character by Choice" is an invitation to a meaningful and transformative journey. In this collection of thoughtful letters, Tambe delves into the nuances of goodness, courage, and the deliberate shaping of one's character. Each page resonates with personal insights and multidisciplinary wisdom, ideal for anyone seeking deeper self-awareness, ethical clarity in their profession, or guidance in parenting with intention.

This book isn't just a read; it's a conversation that challenges and enlightens, offering a path to a life lived with authenticity and purpose.