I’m trying to be a good guy in a stressed out world.

I think (a lot) about marriage, fatherhood, character, and leadership. I write for people who strive to be good and want to contribute at home, work, and in their communities.

Coming to you with love from Detroit, Michigan.

If not “more” then what?

The relentless and arbitrary pursuit of more is something I’ve seen destroy people, families, and teams. I’m not a scholar of history, but I think “more” can destroy companies and nations too. 

But if not more - which I think of as output per unit cost - then what do we measure results by? 

Some ideas: 

  • Simple
  • Humane
  • ”Green” 
  • Stable
  • Honest
  • Fun
  • Slow
  • Quiet
  • Consistent
  • Teachable
  • Automatic
  • Sane
  • Aesthetic
  • Trustworthy
  • Sustainable
  • Durable
  • Safe
  • Resilient
  • Interoperable
  • In(ter)dependent
  • Flexible
  • Serene

I try to pay attention to results, without becoming attached to them. And, I’m generally wary of a results focus (that’s the student of eastern philosophy in me). But even if we don’t fully reject a results focus, our objective doesn’t have to only be “more”. 

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Working, without losing ourselves, in a world with relentless focus on the metrics

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